My family's story.

Your supposed issues are just too big and too personal for you to expect results from talking with people on a Miami Dolphins internet forum.

If indeed your stories are all true, what you should do is get some therapy for your issues in a professional environment, with mental health professionals.

Just my 2 cents, bro.

 

Instead of focusing on the one word of the statement you didnt like, which you are taking entirely out of context by the way, may be you need to focus on the rest of his statement which is true. If you dont like someone you have the option to ignore them but you arent going to sit there and tell people which threads to respond to. Sorry, thats just not happening. Also, youre going to want to learn how to speak nicer to people. Calling someone a "Minion of Satan" is rude when hes simply trying to help. Either you want the help or you want to be disruptive but it wont be both. Im sorry that youre in the situation youre in but thats not an excuse for the way you responded.

 

bro, you need to realize that you have only been here for a few weeks. some of us have known eachother for years. and though some of us have all met and hung out, this is still the internet. there's always an air of misunderstanding, misinterpretation, and uncertainty. you asked for help and people here are nice and trying to help you. every post in this thread is a gift to you, and yet you judge peoples offerings. or say they aren't offering enough.

you seem young and confused and hurt. the fact seems to be that you aren't ready or willing to allow yourself to feel better. you want to stay angry. thats something you need to figure out. but don't think you're the only person on here who's suffered and been through a tragedy. been to hell and back. how you handle it is ultimately up to you. just remember, you aren't a guy we have all known for years, and have any proof of seeing or spending time with, nor have a long standing friendship with. but we give you the benefit of the doubt, and do the best we can by you. because at the end of the day, all we are qualified to give is a half-assed opinion on the Miami Dolphins and why the Jets suck.

 

Look, "Jeffrey", I said what I said because I was giving my advice to a dude who went out of his way to start a thread looking for advice. It's NOT an insult for somebody to advise you to seek professional help.

ThePHINS.com is a very close-knit community of users, and to me, I find it VERY odd that somebody would join our site, and within a few days start carrying on about how he's picked on everywhere he goes, that people "stalk" him on the internet, how he's tired of being judged, and tell total strangers his life story via a convenient web link.

Regardless of whether what you claim is true or not, I believe that you have very real, very deep issues you need help with, brother. The fact that you sent me a PM telling me "you think you're smooth, don't you" and "I know what you're trying to do" is evidence of that.

I wish you well, and I hope you get the counseling you need.

 

I made no such attack of you personally. I dont do that. You just didnt like the answer I gave which frankly I cant help you with. Again, the context with which you are taking peoples statements is incorrect; I read his sig and I read what you wrote. The two are entirely different.

 

I've been a part of this board for roughly a year now, and what the regulars want to do here is help you.

The internet being what it is sometimes posts can be taken out of context. It's very easy.

FWIW I'm a psychology major and this stuff definitely falls under the 'you need help' category. That's not an insult to your person, but a reality. There's nothing wrong with needing help in life.

I've got several things that I need to go see a therapist about, but haven't been able to due to financial reasons. I don't see this as a dash to my character. It's just something I need to do to help me fix some things that have happened in my past.

Once I get the $ to go I will go. And whenever medicaid kicks in is when that will be.

I suggest that you see if you're available for medicaid if $ is the issue, or call a therapist and ask what their rates are, and what you can expect before going. Maybe see if you can go talk to them about talking to them. Also you have to find one that you can open up to because otherwise it will be useless.

Sometimes there are just things that you can't figure out on your own and you need someone who has devoted their time to figuring out what makes people tick.

Best of luck.

 

You are searching for something that you are not going to find here, and getting angry at the people on this board will not bring it any closer.

 

WHAT? Like the Gapper said, nobody here is doing anything other than trying to help you.

I don't know what you want to hear, but it appears that no matter what anybody says, it won't be good enough for you. You seem hell-bent on creating conflict, that is a very self-destructive behavior, brother.

Good luck.

 

No one is throwing anything in your face. You have a me vs the world attitude and misconstrue peoples intentions as such. This board has welcomes you and tried to support you but you continuously push people away with negativity and rudeness. The situation you're in is truly awful but that doesn't give you the right to talk to people however you want. All the anger in the world isn't going to change your situation, its only going to alienate people trying to help you.

 

Saying stuff like that to the mods is not cool, bro.

People have tried to help you, and you refuse their advice and insult them for their troubles. You really should quit while you're ahead...

 

i think both you guys are overreacting and misreading one another. I think you both should just make out now as a sign of peace

 

I did not lock it before. You may wish to get your facts straight. Flinging accusations people is rude as is implying someone is a "minion of satan". I'm not going to debate it with you; I'm not asking for your opinion here. I'm saying based on the standards we have established here we don't do things like that.

 

Okay, I am going to come out and say it. I don't believe that this story is 100% accurate.

In fact, can someone check and see when Jeffrey signed up? I am pretty sure he signed up during Jets week...which seem a little bit too convenient for me.

Maybe the internet, television and life in general has made me the jaded prick I am today, but something just isn't right with this story or at very least, the storyteller. How do we know that this is his family's story?

Jeffrey, I have known a lot of these people for over seven years now. I can safely say that while the members are plenty, they are a close bunch. And quite frankly. I don't take too kindly to someone new calling them out or insinuating that their intentions aren't what they say they are.

Everyone in this thread has been VERY respectful to your plight (whether or not they believe it), and you have done nothing but throw it back in their faces looking for a slight that isn't there.

If you are telling the truth, I feel sorry for you, as that is a rough road to travel. But I honestly, don't know what else you want from people on a Miami Dolphins message board. People have offered up their e-mail addresses, private message options and sound, solid advice to seemingly a stranger. Why? Because they are cool like that.

In closing, I will tell you this, I am pretty sure that this specific forum was implemented for two reasons. One of which, I will not speak on, but the other involves me so I will. Earlier this year, I relapsed on heroin, had a mini nervous breakdown and lashed out at just about everyone on here and telling the owners (guys that I have known for a long time and have giving me a lot of slack on their sites) that I no longer wish to be a part of their community.

What happened? They e-mailed me, called me, instant messaged me and more. And why? Not because I post on here, but because they genuinely cared for my well being. That is the type of community that they have built here. And shortyl after this ordeal, this outreach forum was created, for no other reason than for fellow members to ask for help from other members. And I will be damned to see someone, such as yourself, come in here and crap all over it.

I think you need to go back and re-read your post and see where the FIRST bone of contention came from. It was certainly from you, calling out ohiophinphan. A man I have had the pleasure of spending a few minutes with in person back in April at the NFL Draft party. He is a good man, a very patient man (afterall, he tolerated my annoying *** for the duration of our conversation), and very genuine. For you to act like he doesn't care is insulting.

Anyone who reads these forums cares. Clearly.

Good luck to you.

 

That's your answer for everything.

 

It really is universal.

 

Yeah but between that and Tyson right below it, I started to think that it was 1991 all over again. Quite frankly, I am sad that it isn't...

 

91 was a ****in great year.

Wiiiiiiide right!

 

I tend to agree with you here. This thread should be closed and held up as an example of what happens when LIARS take advantage of the kindness of others.

You're last line has me convinced that you are putting us on. As an expert of picking internet fights, I know what you are up to.

 

i was 4 in 1991.............................

 

That my friend is what we refer to as Karmatic return