pessimism and optimism are emotional. Neither one of them has anything to do with viewing the world realistically. If you were *****ing about henning and justifying it with evidence , then you IMO are being realistic. If you were doing it just because you didn't like what he was calling or he just pissed you off then you are a pessimist.
Draining is a good way to put it TP, constant negativity, no matter the situation, coupled with the sky is falling, all of the time, just is not fun to hand out with for very long, not that unicorns and rainbows are preferrable, however they are not as taxing to bother over.
[video=youtube;b9K5L-UgKpc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9K5L-UgKpc[/video] Okay, I couldn't find a clip with the quote that I wanted... but somewhere in this here vidoe is the quote... "He don't know me very well... do he?" I think it fits. Go to 7:40 for the quote.
this place seems to be more realistic. I haven't seen ONE "Henne sucks" thread here yet! It's refreshing.