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Debate! so here's one for both guys and girls to relate

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by unstoppablefnz, Mar 24, 2009.

  1. unstoppablefnz

    unstoppablefnz New Member

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    What are some ways to tell for sure if your girlfriend or boyfriend wife husband finace whateevr are lieing to you? :pity:
     
  2. dolfan32323

    dolfan32323 ty xphinfanx

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    oy.... i wish there was an easy answer to that. everyone is different; meaning everyone has a "tell."
     
  3. SICK

    SICK Lounge Moderator

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    my wife gets real loud, and defensive. like shes pretty much screaming "im yelling, iam caught, i know that you know....so ill be pissed untill you back off and forget it!!!!!!!!!!!"
     
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  4. unstoppablefnz

    unstoppablefnz New Member

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    I have heard that if they're guilty of it.. when they get angry they will accuse you of doing it
     
  5. anlgp

    anlgp ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A

    if they say they're not cheating on you and there's a person hanging off of their lips that's not you...

    they're lying.
     
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  6. Regan21286

    Regan21286 MCAT's, EMT's, AMCAS, ugh

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    They'll probably say you're the one cheating and lying so they can yell at you and have justifiable cause for their own misdeeds. And if you actually manage to definitively prove your innocence to shift the convo back, they'll slap you with a hand carrying a ring with jewel on palm side...
     
  7. padre31

    padre31 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    The excuses never end is a good tip off.
     
  8. Fin-Omenal

    Fin-Omenal Initiated

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    That skanky *****'s lips are moving!!! Ooops..:sad:
     
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  9. anlgp

    anlgp ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A

    omfg

    :lol:
     
  10. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    I have never seen, or heard anyone or anything lie before, so I am of no help.
     
  11. Phinperor

    Phinperor formerly In_Flames Luxury Box

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    I know one thing for sure...I can't read women worth a damn...:pity:
     
  12. Regan21286

    Regan21286 MCAT's, EMT's, AMCAS, ugh

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    I don't think many people can. Not even women. :up:
     
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  13. Phinperor

    Phinperor formerly In_Flames Luxury Box

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    :amen::hi5:
     
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  14. pennphinfan

    pennphinfan Stelin Canez Arcade Scorz

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    install keystroke logging software on her computer to track internet usage. :shifty:
     
  15. maynard

    maynard Who, whom?

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    install a spy program on their computer :cry:
     
  16. Stitches

    Stitches ThePhin's Biggest Killjoy Luxury Box

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    If they are willing to do what they said they would never do for you in order to change the subject they are probably lying.
     
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  17. dolphan117

    dolphan117 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    The only way I can tell is to hook them up to a lie detector and then start pulling fingernails. Its sad though, the ones that were telling the truth want nothing to do with me afterwards.

    I'm like "Hey, you said every relationship was based on telling each other the truth so whats the problem?"
     
  18. NaboCane

    NaboCane Banned

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    When the deceitful *****'s lips are moving.

    :chuckle:
     
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  19. maynard

    maynard Who, whom?

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    in seriousness it depends on what you think they are lying about and how serious the relationship is

    if behavior and attitude changes significantly from the norm and they insist that nothing is wrong...well they are lying and something is seriously wrong

    put simply, assuming your not an obsessive psycho, your gut is probably correct despite your rationalizations and strong feelings of attachment to that person
     
  20. DonShula84

    DonShula84 Moderator Luxury Box

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    You better hope your overlord doesnt read that!
     
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  21. maynard

    maynard Who, whom?

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    well she upgraded it. its sort of set up like a dog collar now. a little electric shock never hurt anybody. posting in here only induces a mild one :pointlol:
     
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  22. Stitches

    Stitches ThePhin's Biggest Killjoy Luxury Box

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    You seriously have a limit on what web sites you can go to? Are you 5?
     
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  23. section411

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    I don't lie so I automatically assume other people are telling me the truth.
    Bites me in the *** everytime but I never learn.
     
  24. Pagan

    Pagan Metal & a Mustang

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    The buttermilk stain on the front of her dress.
     
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  25. Brown42000

    Brown42000 Chillin

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    I'm just the opposite, I don't believe anything people say.
     
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  26. padre31

    padre31 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    There is a snowball chance in hell a actual female will post on this thread.
     
  27. opfinistic

    opfinistic Braaaaains!

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    Hey screw you man!
     
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  28. HardKoreXXX

    HardKoreXXX Insensitive to the Touch

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    I find that women lie to me ALL the time. Some even go as far as to say they have "restraining orders" against me and that I need to stay at least "300 yards" away. LIES, LIES, LIES!!!
     
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  29. opfinistic

    opfinistic Braaaaains!

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    I caught my wife in a lie yesterday. She said she loved me.
     
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    hmm, I'm sure the two that have won't take any offense to that Andrew... duck and cover brother!
     
  31. padre31

    padre31 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    Someone has to light the match Marty...:lol:
     
  32. opfinistic

    opfinistic Braaaaains!

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    HK and Sick ain't that bad, Marty.
     
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  33. dolphindebby

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    Now three Marty.
    I absolutely hate lying. I don't lie to my husband or any one. I see no need in it. People that do get caught sooner or later. IMO, it's better to just walk away, rather than lie.
    And if I catch you lying to me, I'm done with you. You do it once, you'll do it again. I can maybe forgive being lied to, but I won't forget.
     
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  34. HardKoreXXX

    HardKoreXXX Insensitive to the Touch

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    If that were the case, I wouldn't catch so much grief when I go into women's restrooms. (So the judge told me)
     
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  35. cnc66

    cnc66 wiley veteran, bad spelur Luxury Box

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  36. opfinistic

    opfinistic Braaaaains!

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    Try explaining to the cops that you're 5 years old and you lost your mommy. :pity: No sense of humor, I tell ya.
     
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  37. Fin D

    Fin D Sigh

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    Well, the first thing you need to find out, is what is the significant other's definition of lying.

    Technically, everyone lies. Lying isn't as much of an issue as the intent behind the lie. If someone is lying because they did something that will hurt someone else, then lie about it, that's wrong. If someone lies to someone else, to spare them their feelings getting hurt, when no one was wronged, not really an issue.
     
  38. Fin D

    Fin D Sigh

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    I'd completely believe that you had no mother.
     
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  39. Tone_E

    Tone_E Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    The eyes are the window to anyone's soul, providing she has one that cheating ........ :lol:

    Anyways, the eyes can tell a lot. Check out the website below for tips on how to use eyes to detect whether the truth is being told.

    http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php

    Regardless, even if she is looking "straight" at you, pertaining to the article, and not committing any tells, you should have a good sense of whether she’s telling the truth or not. Just stare at her, with a blank look on your face, she will feel the pressure, and the eyes will then give her position away one she feels that pressure. I don't know really how to explain it, you have to go with your gut in these cases. Expanding on this, if she constantly tries to avoid eye contact, that is usually a sign of lying.

    Don’t get me wrong bro, stone cold liars can look you in the face and you wouldn’t know the difference, but those people are few and far between. We usually call them politicians.
    :)


    Here are a few other quick tips that may suggest lying

    1. If she always tries to change the subject after she gives an answer to your question
    2. If she shoots off her mouth (on topic) forever after answering your question not giving you time to speak - good tactic to avoid additional questions. Careful though, some girls do this naturally. Just check her speech patterns, if quicker than usual, she is either lying or really, genuinely excited about what she is talking about. That is an easy determination to make if you know the girl for even a short period of time.
    3. A lot of other signs were covered in this thread.


    I’m a great liar, so I know my game.

    If you want to lie to her, this is what you do. Tell the truth with exaggeration.

    Her: “How was the night out with the boys?”
    You: “Great, I picked up this fine looker and took her home.” (Actual truth)
    Her: “OMG, are you serious, you a hole” (or something like that)
    You: “C’mon, you honestly think I’d do that to my fav girl?”

    ALTERNATE 1
    Her: “I don’t know, you tell me”
    You: “If I have to answer that question, I don’t know what to say” ( Turn the tide on her)

    ALTERNATE 2
    Her: “Yeah, was she good?”
    You: “Not as good as you” (say this with a smile, at this point it should be a joke, and actually a good bonding experience, as you assure her that she is the one for you) LMAO.

    ALTERNATE Whatever
    At this point, it should be ok and turn into a joke, or something where you can work your way out by not actually answering whether or not it was a true story.

    I’m done for now.
     
  40. Section126

    Section126 We are better than you. Luxury Box

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    The low tone...and the refusal to look at me eye to eye.
     

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