What are some ways to tell for sure if your girlfriend or boyfriend wife husband finace whateevr are lieing to you?
oy.... i wish there was an easy answer to that. everyone is different; meaning everyone has a "tell."
my wife gets real loud, and defensive. like shes pretty much screaming "im yelling, iam caught, i know that you know....so ill be pissed untill you back off and forget it!!!!!!!!!!!"
if they say they're not cheating on you and there's a person hanging off of their lips that's not you... they're lying.
They'll probably say you're the one cheating and lying so they can yell at you and have justifiable cause for their own misdeeds. And if you actually manage to definitively prove your innocence to shift the convo back, they'll slap you with a hand carrying a ring with jewel on palm side...
If they are willing to do what they said they would never do for you in order to change the subject they are probably lying.
The only way I can tell is to hook them up to a lie detector and then start pulling fingernails. Its sad though, the ones that were telling the truth want nothing to do with me afterwards. I'm like "Hey, you said every relationship was based on telling each other the truth so whats the problem?"
in seriousness it depends on what you think they are lying about and how serious the relationship is if behavior and attitude changes significantly from the norm and they insist that nothing is wrong...well they are lying and something is seriously wrong put simply, assuming your not an obsessive psycho, your gut is probably correct despite your rationalizations and strong feelings of attachment to that person
well she upgraded it. its sort of set up like a dog collar now. a little electric shock never hurt anybody. posting in here only induces a mild one
I don't lie so I automatically assume other people are telling me the truth. Bites me in the *** everytime but I never learn.
I find that women lie to me ALL the time. Some even go as far as to say they have "restraining orders" against me and that I need to stay at least "300 yards" away. LIES, LIES, LIES!!!
Now three Marty. I absolutely hate lying. I don't lie to my husband or any one. I see no need in it. People that do get caught sooner or later. IMO, it's better to just walk away, rather than lie. And if I catch you lying to me, I'm done with you. You do it once, you'll do it again. I can maybe forgive being lied to, but I won't forget.
If that were the case, I wouldn't catch so much grief when I go into women's restrooms. (So the judge told me)
Try explaining to the cops that you're 5 years old and you lost your mommy. No sense of humor, I tell ya.
Well, the first thing you need to find out, is what is the significant other's definition of lying. Technically, everyone lies. Lying isn't as much of an issue as the intent behind the lie. If someone is lying because they did something that will hurt someone else, then lie about it, that's wrong. If someone lies to someone else, to spare them their feelings getting hurt, when no one was wronged, not really an issue.
The eyes are the window to anyone's soul, providing she has one that cheating ........ Anyways, the eyes can tell a lot. Check out the website below for tips on how to use eyes to detect whether the truth is being told. http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php Regardless, even if she is looking "straight" at you, pertaining to the article, and not committing any tells, you should have a good sense of whether she’s telling the truth or not. Just stare at her, with a blank look on your face, she will feel the pressure, and the eyes will then give her position away one she feels that pressure. I don't know really how to explain it, you have to go with your gut in these cases. Expanding on this, if she constantly tries to avoid eye contact, that is usually a sign of lying. Don’t get me wrong bro, stone cold liars can look you in the face and you wouldn’t know the difference, but those people are few and far between. We usually call them politicians. Here are a few other quick tips that may suggest lying 1. If she always tries to change the subject after she gives an answer to your question 2. If she shoots off her mouth (on topic) forever after answering your question not giving you time to speak - good tactic to avoid additional questions. Careful though, some girls do this naturally. Just check her speech patterns, if quicker than usual, she is either lying or really, genuinely excited about what she is talking about. That is an easy determination to make if you know the girl for even a short period of time. 3. A lot of other signs were covered in this thread. I’m a great liar, so I know my game. If you want to lie to her, this is what you do. Tell the truth with exaggeration. Her: “How was the night out with the boys?” You: “Great, I picked up this fine looker and took her home.” (Actual truth) Her: “OMG, are you serious, you a hole” (or something like that) You: “C’mon, you honestly think I’d do that to my fav girl?” ALTERNATE 1 Her: “I don’t know, you tell me” You: “If I have to answer that question, I don’t know what to say” ( Turn the tide on her) ALTERNATE 2 Her: “Yeah, was she good?” You: “Not as good as you” (say this with a smile, at this point it should be a joke, and actually a good bonding experience, as you assure her that she is the one for you) LMAO. ALTERNATE Whatever At this point, it should be ok and turn into a joke, or something where you can work your way out by not actually answering whether or not it was a true story. I’m done for now.