little back story...met a girl almost 2 yrs ago in vegas through a mutual friend of a friend. Thought she was attracted, and cool and took shots 3mins after meeting her and We flirted a little but i didnt think much because of the drinking. we all went out to a club she spent that Saturday night dancing hang with him and figured she liked him like most women do. They hung out for the next couple months, and they stop. She starts a relationship with someone else for the next year. During that time We post here and there on Facebook and hung out with a group couple times for happy hour when she invited. Fast Forward to March of this year and she tells me shes single. Come the end of April she asks to hang out and we do So after talking that night she mentioned she was never sexually with my friend and that they only kissed and she liked me since vegas. i guess i wasnt aggressive enough that weekend with her and he was. Bam!! She makes a move on me and we start kissing. Conversation gets pretty serious and asks what are my goals in life and if im ready for kids and marriage. I feel stupid especially being in my late 30s and i dont have any goals in life. Also said not sure about marriage/kids. If it happens it happens i havent found someone i can see myself with. She has 2 kids already and sees herself with another one and married again and going to school a week or so later a family member of her passes away and go over to drop off some flowers. She tells me that night that we could not be in a relationship cause were looking for different things and not on the same page but we can be hang out and see other people. This is where i get confused even after she mentions the above, All May through beginning of June we've hung out every friday and saturday nights and even a sunday for hockey playoff. txt/dm on facebook all day and night. Texting got sexual her sending pics of skinamax soft porn and tells me shes thinking about me. She says 3 things a female should know sex,cooking and like sports. Now that school started for her(mondays) I have not seen her since June and our texting and dwindled down a ton. But there 90% a Good Morning/Night from one of us I know of 2 times she had time but went on a blind date(just to dinner..she said she didnt like him to strong personality) and a baseball game with a mutual friend. i really got hooked on this girl. Shes attracted, funny, smart, open minded, simple girl who has her head on straight. So what my question is Am i wasting my time here with her or should i ride it out and see what happens???