First of all, Im in high school.
Last year, I really liked this one girl. So I added her on facebook and talked to her. Apparently, she thought I was a stalker or something as I sort of did approach her in a stalker kind of way, but I would've never thought she would've taken it that serious. I have never had a real conversation with her outside of facebook, so who knows if she still remembers me.
After this, I was unsure if I liked her. I dont really know. She's still lingering in my head though.
So with the new school year starting, I find out she's in one of my classes.
What should I do?
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Play it cool. Try and find out if she remembers you or what she thinks now. If she doesnt remember you just play it cool. If she DOES remeber then play it even cooler and show you're a good guy.
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Shake the etch-a-sketch, erase all previous noodlings.
Start fresh; find another of the thousands of girls available to you in the world around you. Forget this chick - going down this road will establish a pattern for you of chasing the ideal of a woman, rather than the woman.Frumundah Finnatic, dolfan94, Sethdaddy8 and 1 other person like this. -
Yea. I think that's what Im going to do. I should be able to find out right away. If she looks at me weird at first, then I'll know.
Im not really worried about THIS chick. Im more worried about her just ****ing me up with other chicks in my class my telling them about the "incident", which I dont even consider an incident. I could've done it differently, but it wasnt that bad of an approach -
What year are you in bro? I am a Sr. Dude if she thinks you are stalking her she probably thinks she is cooler then she is. Dude when it comes down to it dont worry about her there are pleanty of fish in the sea. All you got to do is be chill with any girl.
O and by the way Facebook is not a way to get to know a girl.dolfan94 likes this. -
I think this may be the first time RBT has given good advice...
But seriously, I doubt she plans on telling everyone your Facebook endeavors... Just pretend nothing happened and go on with life.dolfan94 likes this. -
If she doesnt recognize you, don't bring it up. Ever. If she does recognize you, just play it cool and apologize. Tell her that you just liked talking to her and that was the extent of it...unless you tried to get her to meet you or to talk on the phone. What exactly did you do?
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anyone who believes the word of one girl without asking you first, is either just looking for an excuse to tell you no, or an idiot. Either way you don't want them anyways. Just forget about it. If she brings it up tell her you approached her badly your bad. Otherwise who cares.dolfan94 likes this.
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Walk over to her desk slowly and deliberately and stand for a moment and say "Hello Clarice..." in your best Hannibal Lector voice...
Failing that, just chill out, if she was really offended over the facebook deal, you'll know it soon enough, but chances are good she has moved onto other things/people/ stuff.Frumundah Finnatic, NaboCane and dolfan94 like this. -
Try to let her know you exist in school and if you dont see her o well. Just never use Facebook.
What she could tell people bro? Come on man you cant worry about what people think.
Plus no one will remeber in 2 weeks plus when did this happen? If it happen during the summer dont worry about it she forgot about it. If she did not forget about it then tell her to move on with her life.
Please dont get stressed over this bro enjoy highschool.dolfan94 likes this. -
I told thephins.com to let you become a mod.
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Okay. What hapenned wasnt serious at all.
I went and added her, and said. Hey, I saw you in school today by the buses with your friends.
Then I told her that her friend rode my bus.
She found that stalkerish. You know how girls can be!
Im not stressing about it. I got bigger issues. I just wanted to know how I should approach it. -
Tell her that she has nice eyes and then ask her if you could hold them
Works for Nabo :shifty:
Just be yourself, ask her how her summer was and gauge her reaction. If she isn't receptive to the conversation, just move on and find another girl, there are plenty of them. Highschool crushes fade quick, what you think is "the girl" will quickly become "what's her name?" at the sight of another round butt in tight jeans. So if she doesn't want to talk and is acting kind of snotty, don't let it get to you, just find a better girl who isn't full of herself. :up: -
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Dude, bumrush the hottie. If she remembers you, and thinks you're cool, no worries. If you don't know if you like her, talk to her a few times. If she gets on your nerves, then you'll know. Those' "omg, I'm like, whatever," and the "I told him cool, and I'm like, ok," girls totally sucked in high school. So, see how you feel about it. Good luck buddy. :smile:dolfan94 likes this.
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dude, dont forget, he's in high school, and these are dopey high school chicks. not a lot of integrity in "that game". theres a lot of crap to wade through.
listem to Nabo. find a new chick/chicks. and if she bad mouths you in anyway, reverse her. be like, "whats your agenda, what are you psycho?!" -
she probably wont even remember you.
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Slip her a note in class with my Avatar and two check boxes......I've included a diagram of so there's no mix ups....this'll get her on board for sure!
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I would walk right up to her in class and start yelling at her to leave you the **** alone. Demand that she quit stalking you and texting you and if it will make her happy, that YES, you will bang her, but only to get rid of her...Trust me, it works.
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Alright. So first day of school today. Walk into class. She sees me, kind of stares at me like she recognizes me, or just couldnt stop staring at my handsomeness. I play it cool. Dont even talk to her.
Then, the teacher gives us assigned seats, and she's seated right next to me. I played it cool for today. I was nice though. She dropped a pen, and I picked it up for her. That's as far as I'll go for today.
Tomorrow is a new day, but if she doesent work out, I got my eyes on a few other girls. SENIORS! JK. But she's not the only fish out there. I certainly have my eyes on some other girls that just suddenly appeared in my school.