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I need your prayers in the worst way

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by calphin, Mar 17, 2009.

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  1. calphin

    calphin deadly at 250 yards!!

    My wife and I just found out that she has a tumor on her cervix. the doctor isn't sure if its benign or not. the only thing we know for sure is that she has to have a hysterectomy, and there are more test to do, so that they can determine if its cancer. weve been married 22 years she is the love of my life, we need prayers.

    at this point, I'm scared to death:cry:
     
  2. PMZQ

    PMZQ Banned

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    Granted and added to my list bro. Hope all turns out for the best. God Bless you and your wife.
     
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  3. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    sorry to hear this calphin. sending prayers towards you, your daughter, your fam, and especially your wife. I hope it all works out man. keep your head up.....
     
  4. Pagan

    Pagan Metal & a Mustang

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    I don't pray, but I'll send some positive energies your way bro. Hope it turns out to be nothing.
     
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  5. padre31

    padre31 Premium Member Luxury Box

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    Smoke and prayers for your wife and you.
     
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  6. alen1

    alen1 New Member

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    I wish your wife and your family the best man.
     
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  7. DrAstroZoom

    DrAstroZoom Canary in a Coal Mine Luxury Box

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    Prayer sent.
     
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  8. Zeke0123

    Zeke0123 message board ******* Club Member

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    Prayers sent.
     
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  9. King Felix

    King Felix chasing the high Club Member

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    best wishes to your wife and family. i hope everything will be okay
     
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  10. Ray Finkle

    Ray Finkle Member

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    Try to stay positive my friend. I'll be sending my thoughts and prayers to you and yours. Hopefully everything turns out fine.
     
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  11. Phinperor

    Phinperor formerly In_Flames Luxury Box

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    You have my thoughts and prayers brother...stay strong for her.
     
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  12. dolphindebby

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    My prayers are with you and your wife.
    I pray all will turn out ok and she'll be on the road to recovery soon.
    God bless all of you Calphin.
     
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  13. calphin

    calphin deadly at 250 yards!!

    Thanks for all the kind words, thoughts, and prayers. you are the best.
     
  14. charlestonphan

    charlestonphan Junior Member

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    i just said a prayer for you and your wife Cal... i hope that everything turns out ok, and your next 22 years together are even more happy and prosperous!
     
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  15. like2god

    like2god Typical white person Luxury Box

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    Mike, you and your family have my thoughts, prayers and best wishes for a full and speedy recovery. Keep your head up brother, you need to be strong for your wife and keep her thoughts positive.
     
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  16. Rocky Raccoon

    Rocky Raccoon Greasepaint Ghost Staff Member

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    You're in my prayers brother. Hopefully it will all turns out fine. Try to stay positive.
     
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  17. BuckeyeKing

    BuckeyeKing Wolves DYNASTY!!!!

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    Very sorry to hear such news. Prayers are being sent.
     
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  18. MonstBlitz

    MonstBlitz Nobody's Fart Catcher

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    Prayers sent. Stay strong!
     
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    124 Banned

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    Horrible news dude. Horrible. She and you will be in my thoughts.
     
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  20. njfinfan

    njfinfan The First Lady

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    God Bless you and your family hon. Chris, I and the girls are praying that it is benign.

    Please keep us updated.
     
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  21. azfinfanmang

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    Very sorry to hear this Mike, however, if indeed there is anything bad going on, I am hoping they caught it early on.

    You are a strong man, no doubt about that, and your wife is going to be needing that.
    You will have LOTS of positive prayers, thoughts and energy coming your way brother.
     
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  22. anlgp

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    keep your hopes up and i hope for all the best
     
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  23. Sethdaddy8

    Sethdaddy8 Well-Known Member

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    Wishing the best for you Cal. Stay strong.
     
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  24. PSG

    PSG Clear Eyes. Full Hearts.

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    So sorry to hear about your wife.
    I hope everything turns out OK.
    You will be in my thoughts.
     
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  25. Skeet84

    Skeet84 New Member

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    You have my thoughts and prayers. I hope she pulls thru
     
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  26. NaboCane

    NaboCane Banned

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    Prayers for you and your family.

    Not to add to your burden Cal, but have you sought a second opinion?
     
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  27. GridIronKing34

    GridIronKing34 Silently Judging You Club Member

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    Thoughts and prayers go out to you, your wife, and family & friends.

    Stay strong, bro. Keeping a positive attitude is 90% of the battle, just remember you have a great family here if you need any advice!
     
  28. TJamesW_Phinfan

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    Prayers and best wishes from mine to yours. They are making great strides in cancer treatment. My father had prostate cancer and after surgery is now 9 years cancer free. keep your spirits up and know many are thinking of and praying for you and your family.
     
  29. The Rev

    The Rev Totus Tuus Administrator Luxury Box Club Member

    If I may be so bold:

    Father, I thank you for the gift of life and pray that you give our brother Cal and his family strength and hope at this moment. We pray for peace and healing.
    Finally, we pray that you guide the surgeon's hands during the surgery and that all may turn out well.

    Thank you Father.

    Amen.


    Brother Cal, please lean on us and let us know how else we can help. We're here for you.
     
  30. Regan21286

    Regan21286 MCAT's, EMT's, AMCAS, ugh

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    You and your family have my thoughts and prayers. Hope for the best.
     
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  31. calphin

    calphin deadly at 250 yards!!


    She has an appointment in a few days with a second doctor (obgyn) and the Dr's office said this morning that they are gonna try and move some people around so that she can get in sooner.

    also,

    the second doctor already has her ultra sound and results, he really wants her there asap.
     
  32. late again

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    You and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers, brother.
    Keep strong.
     
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  33. calphin

    calphin deadly at 250 yards!!



    Thanks, the part that hurts me is the pain that she has, and theres not a damn thing I can do.

    shes a pretty tough cookie and this is really hurting her. her mom died of breast cancer and she has had one sister that had thyroid cancer.
     
  34. Crappy Tipper

    Crappy Tipper AKA Hero13

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    The one thing above all that is going strong is a strength of will my brother and his wife have never given up on anything and I know will be strong for this as well.
     
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  35. NaboCane

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    Good. I'll be praying that the second diagnosis is better and that a biopsy can provide even better news.

    This is not meant to provide false hope, but...my best friend was diagnosed with a "growth" in her cervix a few months back; her doctor was pretty grim in her opinion of what the biopsy would likely reveal. Yet when the biopsy results came back, they showed no malignant cells at all.

    I hope this doesn't mess with your head, it's not meant to do that; just to illustrate that sometimes a doctor can have a diagnosis contradicted entirely by actual test results.

    Hopefully that will be the case for your wife. But if it isn't, know that you have our love and support, and that she and you will be in our prayers until she wins whatever trial is thrown her way.
     
  36. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    stay strong bro...........
     
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  37. fins4o8

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    I'm sorry to hear about this. my thoughts & prayers go out to you & your family.

    My mom survived cancer three times (breast, cervix & colon) and won. I'm not saying your wife has, I'm just saying if she does, its curable. My mom is living proof, so will your wife.

    I was once where you are now and I was scared ****less. The best advice I got was from a friend who happened to be a doctor. He told me to read about it. Not sure if you have done that yet or not. Just learning about it & knowing its curable made things so much easier. Find a support group if you are up for that. It helps to talk to other ppl that have been there. I wished I went that route instead of smoking up & keeping things to myself.

    Good luck buddy. :up:
     
  38. Idahophin

    Idahophin Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    Calphin, i'm so sorry to hear this. :sad: You and your wife will be in my prayers and thoughts.
     
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  39. RickyNeverInhaled

    RickyNeverInhaled Well-Known Member

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    There's a stripe on Jesus' back for your wife's healing. I apply the same faith it took for me to get saved toward you wife's healing. I pray that God will be glorified through this in some way.
     
  40. Fin Fan In Cali

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    Brother Mike, prayers, thoughts and the very best of wishes for your wonderful wife, and you of course. If I can do anything to help, you have my number brother. Feel free to call anytime.:yes:
     

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