Alot of cats on here (not you lucky) seem to be real smart and stuff ,so I thought I'd give it a shot a roo. I work at a job that I absolutely hate, I mean I utterly feel like crap every day I work. At night I think about how much I dont want to go to work the next day. But I have great benefits at this job, I mean top of the line, and the pay is, ok, its not the best but it pays the bills. And with kids I feel like I have to keep a job like this to stay above water. I dont even really know what I want to do, or what I'm good at that I could enjoy doing to make money. I dont want to stay at my job, and I feel if I stay much longer I am going to walk out, and then I would be jobless all together. I actually hate Indiana....but thats another story all in its own.I feel like I am in a major rut, any suggestions on how to get myself out of it?