Okay folks, I haven't caught you up on my brother in about six months. Quick recap- we were both adopted at birth, found him last year thru 23&Me, and learned he's been in jail most of his adult life for weed-related charges. I got him out of jail in March and moved him to SC with me even though we barely knew him...and he's done incredible. Got a job the 2nd day he was here, frequently worked 60-70 hours a week at a restaurant and advanced up to manager, and generally is just super helpful and supportive around the house. The only downside- he still smokes weed and his boss at the restaurant sells weed...so that's been a major problem we couldn't have foreseen. He has Turrets Syndrome and marijuana instantly calms him down, so I don't love him smoking it but I also understand. He usually smokes just enough to relax- he rarely "gets stoned". This past week, his boss talked him into going down to Orlando (in the hurricane no less) to get introduced to one of my brother's old weed contacts. They got pulled over in an evacuation zone before they even got there, there's an illegal gun in the car, and they arrest my brother for it because of his Florida history. I know for a fact that it was his boss's gun and my brother will get out of these charges eventually, but here's where the advice part comes in. His bail is $400 and he has like $300 savings in his bedroom here, so I can bail him out no problem. But my 18 year old doesn't want him here anymore because he smokes weed...and my wife doesn't want my kid to feel uncomfortable. So they're telling me not to let him come back here even though he has nowhere else to go (except back to his drug dealer friends in Florida). Meanwhile, my 20 year old (who also smokes weed) and her husband also live with us and they both really want him back here. So we're torn as a family and someone's going to be really mad/sad no matter what. I want to get him, of course, because he's my brother and a really good guy at heart- he's just a dumb *** that can't hang out with drug dealers at work. Even though he's done great overall, that job (and his loser boss) completely screwed him in the long run. So he needs a new job no matter what but the way he works, that won't be a problem. I think he's really done with weed as well. So what do I do? Bail him out and leave him in Florida? Leave him in jail for months waiting on trial? Bring him home and let my 18 year old "get over it"?