I have this problem, I have been dating this guy for 7 years now, and we are both in our 20s. We have been dating since he was 22 and I was 20. Most of my firends my age are married or getting married, and its not that I feel out of the loop, bujt more that I feel like hes never going to make a move. I know people do their own thing on theri own time, but i'm not too sure that he loves me. I feel like i'm affectionate all the time and he just doesnt care and lots of people tell me to leave him for various reasons ( not that hes a bad guy) hes never stryaed that I konw of, other than our first month together he went out with another girl and didnt tell me until later, but we weren't exclusive yet at that pooint so I can't really bring that up. but we dont do the things cuples do, and we especially dont make love. Havent done that in over a year. Which i find to be strange. But if he stays with me he should love me right? Or is he just bored? Hes a really good looking, outgoing guy, works at a bar, And we live in New York ( so it not a small area) so many many girls hit on him all the time i'm sure, but he dosent' seem to care, obviously he chose me for a reason. Could this be because i'm within his "comfort zone" ?