I'm typically not the one to ask for things, but I would greatly appreciate it if you could say a little prayer for my marriage. It would mean a lot. Thanks everyone... J
got aim or PM or don't wanna talk? i'm 'themangoduck' on aim so if you wanna talk or PM go for it if not it's understandable sorry
In Flames, I have been through some personal relationship struggles myself, as I'm sure most have. Feel free to PM me. I don't claim to have all the answers, as every situation is different, but at least I can understand the struggles, even if the situations are not parallel. Take care.
Thanks everyone, I'm trying my hardest to stay optimistic during this...people keep telling me to have faith, and I do. I just hope she does as well.
jason. if you need anything....pm me brotha. i will pray as long as you need it as long as it helps you. i believe you have my number, if not ill pm it to you call me if you need to talk bro. ill be there.
Just wanted to tell you you're still in my thoughts and prayers Jason. I'm also praying for you to have strength and wisdom during this time. I hope all works out well for you.
she ended it tonight...6 years all for nothing...I don't understand how some people can be so heartless and cold. I'm so lost...where to go from here
wish i could tell you but i'm in just a state as you are but you know my PM/AIM information and i'm usually around.
thanks guys... I just don't understand how someone can just stop loving someone else...just shut it off, because I sure as hell can't do it...
yeah me either.. i'm about as hopeless a romantic as it gets i'm afraid.. it was 5 years for me and while i can't deny that i didn't do my own share of **** and i wasn't blindsided by the decision i felt like i was married (she did too) and well.. we all know how that's supposed to work...
she ended our marriage over text message...she left last tuesday and hasnt spoken to me since, except via text message and myspace...
I am very sorry for you my friend. Stay engaged here and with other friends. Let us walk with you. The pain will eventually go away and it will happen faster and in a more healthy fashion if you are with other folks!
I agree with Pastor Keith Jason. Hold fast and let us know how we can help you get through this. You can always pm me if you need a shoulder. My prayers and thoughts are with you always.
J I'm so sorry I just stumbled on this thread today. My gosh - what can I say everyone else hasn't except that I'm praying for you both. PM sent. Please call that number any time or email or PM me. I'm here for you brother. You've been so good to us. Please, please take care of yourself. me
Just an update on the situation. She came by today and picked up all her things, and I'm meeting with an attorney tomorrow to get the paperwork started...this is truly the most painful thing I've ever gone through next to burying my mother. Anyways, I just wanted to thank everyone for their kind words and support. I just wish there was a way to heal my heart...
It sounds like a cliche but it is true, time will heal your heart. Make you forget? Heck no, but you will heal and all of us are praying for that time to come. It may take quite a while but it will come. Our love and prayers are with you.
Listen to Pastor Keith. I agree with him totally. Time will help you heal, just take your time and things will get better for you. Hold fast Jason. My prayers are with you.
jason you dont deserve this. i cant wait to meet you, and drive to ny with you....i am a good listener and funny....ill make ya smile! if you need anything untill then, do not for one second hesitate to let me know. I consider you a friend of mine. and i hope things turn positivley for you (i know they will) contact me if you need anything. much love bro! your in my thoughts and prayers.
I love you guys too... well, everything is in motion...guess soon enough I will once again be single, not by choice of course. I hate being alone, especially after so many years being with someone, night time is always the worst.
Can't believe I missed this.... Bro, hang in there. My wife and I separated last September. I moved out and was on my own in a sleazy motel for three weeks before friends with a guest bedroom had me come stay with them. My wife filed for divorce and I thought things were done. During the time apart I kept communication open and after awhile we started realizing we missed each other. After awhile we started "dating" again. Long story short, the morning of February 1st we met at our High Priestess' house, renewed our vows and were handfasted again, and I moved back home. The relationship is stronger than ever. The point I'm trying to make is keep communication. Talk about everything. If you're meant to be together it will happen. I'm pullin' for ya metal bro...all the most positive energies are headed your way. You f'ers better let me know when you get here so we can go toss a few back.
Jason, I'm so sorry you are going through this pain. As Pastor Keith said, time will heal all wounds. Just wish there was something we could do.
Sorry I got to the thread late. Hope you get back on your feet in no time. It's tough but I know you'll come through. Chin up Jason!
Damn man I just saw this. I'm sorry to hear man. I wish you the best. I know you will find someone. Your a good person and a funny one (especially when drunk and typing lol). Keep your head up man. I know I'm not the first person you'll go to if you need to talk simply because I haven't experienced all of the stuff that people older than me have but I'm always here man - literally. You can PM me, the mailbox is always open. Alen
