This is not a joke. and it is quite embarrassing. but i have been with my girlfriend for about 6 years now our sex used to be awesome. i have never had this problem before, because i always enjoyed everything and i never thought about it well recently, we have not been as sexually active as i would like. and when we do, i do not last that long. i believe honestly its because of the lack of sex that when we do get around to doing it, i want to make it awesome so she wants to do it more well i find myself under alot of pressure to perform, and when iam doing the business iam literally the entire time telling myself "dont finish dont finsish dont finish" well that makes things seem to feel better, our i am just mentally weak and i finish prematurely. i think its a mental block. i just need to know if anyone else had this problem and how they got around it? i mean i heave tried to go down the dolphins starting depth chart in my head, but its to no avail. and whats the point of making some whoopy with your girl, if your thinking about quinton moses and rodrick wright the entire time?! this once again is embarassing, but i figured id ask you people if you have any advice? thanks.