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Should I stay or should I go?

Discussion in 'Lounge' started by Samphin, Jun 23, 2009.

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Go to the gay bar or no?

Poll closed Jun 26, 2009.
  1. Go drink beers, listen to live music and get manhandled by men

    16 vote(s)
    51.6%
  2. Stay away from thin mustachioed men and risk having friends hate me

    15 vote(s)
    48.4%
  1. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    So, my friend used to be in this local rock band out here in San Francisco. They are pretty good and the lead singer's brother is actually VERY famous, so they get to play decent gigs and venues.

    Well, my friend has since quit the band (her day job is/was taking off), and has been replaced with some new chick. Even though she isn't playing with them any longer, I am still friendly with her former bandmates, and they invite me to their shows all the time.

    Typically, due to my job, or location at the time, I am usually unable to attend, but I promised them I would go to their next show.

    Their next show is on Thursday night, in San Francisco, at a gay bar, during gay pride week. Now, I have no problem with the gays. I love me some gays! (I have a feeling this line will come back to haunt me...).

    But I also don't know if I should be hopping around a gay bar during pride week by myself (the plan was to go alone). Granted, I could probably use the ego boost that comes with a bunch of gay dudes grabbing and groping me, but I have to keep in mind that...it is a bunch of gay dudes grabbing and groping me...

    And no, I am not thinking awfully high of myself. Gay Pride week is one big fondlefest in the City. In fact, back in 1998, there was a motion to officially change the name of Gay Pride Week to FondleFest 14.

    So the question is, do I go to the show at the gay bar to support my quasi friends while most assuredly getting my junk fondled by dudes? Or do I risk further alienating my friends and missing a good local band for the sake of not being molested continuously?

    I leave it up to you all.
     
  2. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

  3. Alex44

    Alex44 Boshosaurus Rex

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    Eh just go dude. A guy fondles you.....big deal just back off. I mean it isnt pleasant, but I've had much worse happen at concerts. Just have a good time.
     
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  4. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    I sooooooooooo apologized for that. What the hell do you want from me!!
     
  5. DonShula84

    DonShula84 Moderator Luxury Box

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    Cant you invite someone to go with you?
     
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  6. Alex44

    Alex44 Boshosaurus Rex

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    "Hey dude wanna go to a gay pride event with me?"

    Not that theres anything wrong with it, but it just sends up a bunch of red flags when you ask someone that :lol:
     
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  7. Colorado Dolfan

    Colorado Dolfan ...dirty drownin' man?

    The fondling would be a deal-breaker for me. I've got no problem being hit on or flirted with, but as soon as someone grabbed my junk there would be problems.

    So, I voted to avoid it... You can find good local bands in more comfortable surroundings.

    ...and you did call them your "quasi" friends. :wink2:
     
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  8. Sethdaddy8

    Sethdaddy8 Well-Known Member

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    i cant believe you are going to get raped at "the stud bar".
     
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  9. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    I invited my friend who used to be in the band, but she is a no go. I invited another lady friend of mine, but she has tests until 9 at night. I am contemplating one other lady, otherwise it is me by myself. :cry:
     
  10. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    "naw man, its an indian bar, thats why I am wearing this indian costume."
     
  11. Colorado Dolfan

    Colorado Dolfan ...dirty drownin' man?

    Well, most of my gay friends (and relatives) call it Pride Week (or simply Pride), so I'd probably take it as innocently as was intended. :yes:
     
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  12. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    Why you always gotta bring race into this?
     
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  13. Alex44

    Alex44 Boshosaurus Rex

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    I have gay friends and relatives but they aren't into the whole pride thing so I dont really know what to call it haha.
     
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  14. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    just trying to give you costume suggestions doode.

    Heres another suggestion

    [​IMG]
     
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  15. Colorado Dolfan

    Colorado Dolfan ...dirty drownin' man?

    [​IMG]?

    :confused2:
     
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  16. slickj101

    slickj101 Is Water

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    Guess it depends on the bar.

    Depends how you'd deal with getting your *** grabbed by a dude as well.

    Not saying it'd def happen, but you do look kind of fruity to begin with.
     
  17. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    I suppose I COULD wear a cup...
     
  18. Jaydog57

    Jaydog57 Canes/Fins/Magic fan

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    Go ahead and go man. If any guys bother you just say 'I'm hear for the music' or 'I'm with somebody'. I've met a few gay guys before and once they know you're straight, they shouldn't bother you.
     
  19. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    Dude, I need to stress that this is PRIDE week. It's not a couple of gay dudes. I have been to PRIDE week before, and it is a ****fest, which is cool, if you're gay. I am not, they won't leave you alone, trust me. I could probably sell tickets like an *** grabbing booth.

    Say, that isn't a bad idea. Maybe make some money...:shifty:
     
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  20. 124

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    Go drink the beers and if they touch you, punch them in the face.
     
  21. adamprez2003

    adamprez2003 Senior Member

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    wear a "I voted for Bush" button. They'll either leave you alone or kill ya but at least they wont fondle you
     
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  22. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    I could wear an, "I like Bush," T-shirt. Then it would confuse them on whether it is a political statement or a sexual preference!
     
  23. 124

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    Iron on a picture of his pathetic face onto the shirt.

    That or a guy just doing a face palm. Either way, same thing.
     
  24. slickj101

    slickj101 Is Water

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    Prob with that is that it could get thrown into a "hate crime" category which would be BS but does happen.


    Now if you grabbed a girl's *** and she decks you then that's within her rights.

    :omg:
     
  25. SICK

    SICK Lounge Moderator

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    the comedic thing to say is go and drink and get jerked off by a jon lovitz look alike.......but iam being a friend here....and i would stay the **** away....but thats me
     
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  26. 124

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    Or get jerked off by a Tom Brady lookalike, then sue Tom Brady for $20 million.
     
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  27. unluckyluciano

    unluckyluciano For My Hero JetsSuck

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    this turning anybody else on??

    [​IMG]
     
  28. maynard

    maynard Who, whom?

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    is this a serious question? lol. how can i tell you how comfortable you will be with being repeatedly sexually violated?

    you could wear a cup. wont protect your from the fingers being shoved in your *** though. not to mention the nipple tweaking. but hey, you wouldnt want to "alienate" your friends would ya? lol
     
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  29. Samphin

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    I don't know. That is what I am trying to figure out! duh... :shifty:
     
  30. 124

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    We all have to sit back and think in the minds of Teh Gheys. If you were Teh Ghey, would you attack Sam? :shifty:
     
  31. anlgp

    anlgp ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A

    go.

    a) you made a promise

    b) you're not getting any better action are you? :D
     
  32. 124

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    San Diego Super Charger Cheerleader.

    Yeah... he should definitely hold out for a Cowboy Girl.
     
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  33. anlgp

    anlgp ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A

    oh yeah i forgot about the cheerleader.

    well then it's completely up in the air.
     
  34. Boik14

    Boik14 Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    You dont even seem to like these people that much to begin with so who cares if you disappoint them? If you arent comfortable with the environment just say you arent comfortable with the environment. They can either deal with that fact or take their quasi friendships and stick em...which they very well may do if theyre in to the whole gay pride week thing.
     
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  35. adamprez2003

    adamprez2003 Senior Member

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    :lol:
     
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  36. adamprez2003

    adamprez2003 Senior Member

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    yeah but whats he going to do with the pink hip huggers he bought for the occasion?
     
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  37. Samphin

    Samphin Κακό σκυλί ψόφο δεν έχει

    Ho. Lee. Crap. :hi5:

    I think my problem is now solved... :knucks:
     
  38. dolphan117

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    No way would I go, and if your friends cant understand that then you need some new friends IMO. I mean I'm not homophobic but a gay bar in the middle of gay pride week for a single guy is not a place I would want to be.
     
  39. Boik14

    Boik14 Season Ticket Holder Club Member

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    Oh those? He's had those since Lucky brought them for him. He sleeps with them every night just for his pal. :pointlol:

    Agreed, stuff can come out that way but nothing's goin in that way. :no:
     
  40. adamprez2003

    adamprez2003 Senior Member

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    :lol: I just dont want to find out that "Borderland" is some gay club in the castro district and "Wolf" is the gay version of "cougar". If he posts a Barry Manilow video in the "Whats thumping in your ears" thread....
    [​IMG]
     
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