I find myself in a very difficult position. My girlfriend and I split up 3 months ago. We lived together for 2 years and it was basically 95% my fault it didn't work. I moved back home (3 hours away) and we talk on the phone every day. We met up 4 times in three months, had sex, acted like a couple yada yada yah. I was trying to get her back the whole time but wasnt having a lot of success. She kept saying she didn't know if I had really made changes and didn't know if we could ever work again however she wasn't ready to give me up. Throughout the 3 months, she had told me about his guy she was hanging out with and even had some feelings for. He knows about me and knows she's not looking for a relationship with anyone. She has sworn up and down that they don't sleep together and even told me yesterday theyve not even kissed. So on Wednesday she calls me and tells me she's had his realization that she just can't get over me and is willing to give me a chance to move back out here and prove that what I'm saying is true (I tell her we're meant to be together, I can make her truly happy, all that stuff.) So on a wimb, I decided to drive up last night and stay with her for he weekend and then shes gonna come my way on Tuesday for 2 days, things seem terrific. However, she works today and I'm alone in her house. Curious me decides to start snooping around and I found some condoms in the side table and then found wrappers in the trash. I mean I always suspected they were sleeping together but now I've got confirmation. I'm not steaming pissed like I thought I'd be. I'm confused. We had a great time last night, had incredible sex, and I'm still very muh in love with her. So my questions are, do I have a right to be upset that she slept with someone else while we're broken up? I'm mad that she lied but then again, she had no reason to tell me, we aren't together. She gets home tonight. Do I confront her? Do I ask her about it? Do I run for the hills and tell her to **** herself? I mean maybe she needed to be seeing someone else to realize how much she missed me? Little help here, please. I'm so ****ing confused.