i have been married a few years. have a child. wife and i have a good relationship. it has sort of died off, the original flame that is. sexually its what comedians talk about in jokes. "want to have sex tonight?" "sure" and its done. well this co worker of mine has the hots for me. she is married as well. a bit older, has a few kids. she wants to get freaky. she is a closet freak, but cant express herself with her husband. im down with that stuff. she has expressed to me, no strings, she loves her husband. as i do my wife. but she wants me and her to get down and freaky. nothin else. just sex. i wouldnt mind venturing into this. but iam a faithful person. i know even thinking about this is bad. i have tried talking to the wife about our dull sex life. but it turns into a fight. any advice? anyone here gone through the same issues? thanks.