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Discussion in 'Questions and Answers' started by Seeking Answers, Jul 1, 2009.

  1. Seeking Answers

    Seeking Answers New Member

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    so here is the thing gang, there is this girl that i like but she is considering moving to maryland in 2 months time with some of hier girlfriends... i asked her out on a date a few weeks back, still havent picked a day and time but she is free anytime after july 4th weekend and her friend told me to ask her on a date one of those days so i plan on doing that.

    she also told said friend that she wants to go but doesnt know if she wants to start anything since she may indeed be moving in 2 months... she and her friends are going at the end of july and they have to either put money down on an apartment or the move isnt happening

    also, this might sound a bit lame but im struggling in terms of what questions to ask her to keep the awkward silence at a minimum, assuming she accepts the date because of what she recently told her friend

    i dont know how i should approach this situation. help?
     
  2. 124

    124 Banned

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    Some questions you might want to ask, if you havn't asked her already, are why doe she want to move to Maryland (I don't know what state you both live in) and what are her primary reasons for the move. I would definitely ask her out. I took a gamble just a few days ago and asked out one of the new girls from work, its a gamble because she dated an ex-coworker who I still talk to and I don't know, we arn't friends so I'm not breaking to brorelationship, but still strange.

    Best of luck.
     
  3. SICK

    SICK Lounge Moderator

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    let her talk about herself.....girls love talking about themselves.....ask genuine questions......not "yes or no" questions but detailed questions......pay attention ask more questions to her answers......then take some her important stuff and make them like you 2 have something in common and go with it.....just wing it, have fun, smile, be yourself....
     
  4. Section126

    Section126 We are better than you. Luxury Box

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    3 questions to ask.

    does your crotch itch?

    Do you know how to cook rodents?

    have you seen Elvis lately?
     
  5. anlgp

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    If an opportunity to date is there you should take it if you're looking to date. IE. ask her out.

    As for conversation stop thinking "oh my god I'm going on a date" and just think "i'm hanging out with a friend". As this will be a first date the conversation should be light and fluffy.
     
  6. GridIronKing34

    GridIronKing34 Silently Judging You Club Member

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    Don't make it out to be more than it is. What Sick said is the right thing to do, give her the spotlight...

    You need to take it for what it is.. don't look at it as a long term commitment or down the future endeavors. It's a date, just one date. If it turns into more, so be it... But until then, just have fun and don't worry about the future.

    Oh and what Section126 said... yeah you should really find out if her crotch itches. Just be a little more subtle than "So do you got herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea... crabs?! That ****s everywhere!"
     
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  7. Dolfan984

    Dolfan984 Underrated Free Agent

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    I thought these were ice breakers?
     

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