Cheating bastard?

Honestly, that was a confusing post. If you want revenge, this is your shot. Take pictures and send them to the wife anonymously.

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Itd be pretty hard to prove that he is in fact cheating. Second of all I'd probably just move on and forget about him. He's a prick but you know do you think that will change if you get revenge? I don't. He'll still be an *******. And you'll have spent energy trying to get some satisfaction from something you won't even get to be there to watch.

I would just move on. Scum will always get what is coming their way eventually.

i dont know what kind of guy you are. at the risk of sounding meat-headish....

i would probably go visit the guy at his office hours, or lay in wait at starbucks. id confront him. say something to the effect of:

"i knew there was something up when you busted my girlfriends chops in the past. Now look, you walk in with your adultering prize pupil. hows being a cheating, unethical, low-life scumbag working out for you?"

approach him slowly without touching him: "thats right, you heard me. you're an unethical, loser, c***. you sleep with and reward your students. your the lowest piece of garbage i could care less to know. im saying this to your worthless face in front of your adultering whore girlfriend.

what are you gonna do about it?"

and he'll do nothing, and you'll feel very very good.

no sense you being the one to hurt his wife with the bad news. hopefully that works itself out.
and this loser wont sleep for weeks.

I had to read that three times. Sifting through the information, the core is that you feel your girlfriend was treated unjustly by the professor. If this is a university, do (did) they not have an ombudsman? If a college, not an academic dean in charge of that dept.? That's the route I (would have) pursued. Every upper level collegiate institution has a route for the injustices you described. If the professor you described is having an affair, in reality, that has nothing to do with the prior injustice your parter dealt with. While it may well be consistent with your view of him for prior acquaintance, the bottom line is you and your friend missed your chance to "get him" by his bias. Any other pursuit of this is just stress on you, and I hope your own closet is clean, and anonymity these days is just about 99.9% absent.

I personally would send something not only to the wife, but also to the college he currently works at. That's just me though; I never start fights but I definitely finish them.

Before you take anyone's advice though, consider the legal ramifiactions. Let's say you send an anonymous letter to the wife saying he's getting jiggy with Becky, then for the sake of argument let's also assume she believes you 100% (if he's cheating there are other signs that will prove your statement to the wife). She then confronts Becky and/or husband, and they both deny all of it. Somehow the professor finds out it was you, knows you have no actual proof, and then he can sue the crap out of you for slander and emotional distress from trying to salvage his relationship with his wife and children.

Like I said before, I know what I would do....but your question can not be answered by anyone here. Only you can make that call, because even though you may be right you are still liable.

The only other advice I can give...either do it with 100% effort or completely leave it alone. Anything else will only backfire on you.

yea,you might want to look at this a little deeper.i know i would have a very hard time if say hypotheticly you somehow have it to where the wife catches them together then proceeds to break down and shoot them both.maybe you can work it subtlely..maybe get with the school's newspaper and get them to do a story on professor/student dating..you know something that doesn't say "this professor" is cheating.then have a paper delivered to the wife.

or try sending menus/coupons from the place him and the mistress are meeting to the wifes place of work.who knows maybe a coworker of the wife see's the professor and mistress together at breakfast one day.

I absolutely would not get involved. Nothing good can come of it.