As alot of others Im about 5 hours from being single....
7 years wasted a precious little girl who deserves to have a stable family....am i sad? It will hit hard at some point Im sure but right now Im just hurting for my little girl.
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1.) how is there a countdown?
B.) if you need anything bro....let me know. you should move to nc with jay and E :shifty:Phinperor, Big E and Fin-Omenal like this. -
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Appreciate it...
Long story as far as the countdown goes....this is life I guess, looking foward to the show tonight.
Ironically the owner of our company has put a few bids out in NC for striping work, and if he starts to get a few he may open another company in NC. So yea at this point anything is possible.Fin Fan In Cali and SICK like this. -
Thanks man.....we were an accident waiting to happen for a long time so there is no shock factor involved. -
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It is what it is......anytime your with someone this long you grow attached but we were not the typical couple anyway.
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i am so sorry bro. i feel for your daughter. and i feel for you. you know my aim.......lemme know if you need something bro. i consider you a friend.....i am always here for a friend :ffic:
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Just another poster who is on the outs with the "other" maybe this site is bad luck.:sad: -
Keep the faith brother. :wink2: You will always have your little girl. Relationships require a lot of give and take. If you need an ear you got one here.:hi5:DOLPHAN1 and Fin-Omenal like this.
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and not any of that "she gives you **** and you take it" stuff either. :lol:slickj101 and Fin Fan In Cali like this.
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Sorry to hear that bro. But all's not lost, at least you still have a daughter to love.
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I didn't say that bro.:hi5: In a relationship you don't always take a straight line to the response you are looking for. It is kinda of like being a staff member here. You can still achieve the same results with a different approach and words, and still get the touchdown!:lol:Vengeful Odin likes this.
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Thats one of the biggest problems we have....when we argue she wants to do it in front of my kid, and thats BS and it makes me mad.
Shes young and immature...and I have my faults, better to just go our seperate ways, I actually feel a little relieved.DOLPHAN1, Big E, Vengeful Odin and 2 others like this. -
That is good bro that you don't like arguing in front of your daughter. Perhaps when it is all said and done you can at least be friends for your daughter's sake.Fin-Omenal likes this.
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Yea hope so also....
She has a big family and some of them I really care for so hopefully this will end civally, although with her Im not sure its possible. -
i feel for you...me and my ex broke up in jan and its still effecting me almost everyday
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:lol: i know i was trying to bring levity to the situation.. bad timing i guess.
losses affect everyone; it's how you deal with them that make you a success.Fin-Omenal and Fin Fan In Cali like this. -
Brother Eric I got this :az: from my first wife when I got back from Desert Shield, and Desert Storm. We ended as friends, and I helped her move twice. I don't have contact with her anymore. It was a blessing in disguise as I met my current wife, and have been married for 17 years. So do not give up hope bro.:wink2:DOLPHAN1 and Fin-Omenal like this.
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I know this maybe real hard and try your patience, but try to be the bigger person. This may make things better for your daughter. I am not saying your ex is right, but by being the bigger person things might not get so heated.:wink2:Big E and Fin-Omenal like this.
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Sorry to hear that bro. Stay strong it sounds like your making the right choice not only for yourself but for your daughter also.
Also were here for you buddy.Big E and Fin-Omenal like this. -
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Smart man!
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Your 19 and broke up with your girlfriend in January and it still effects you? I'm surprised unless you we were with her for a few years.
Yeah this is why you stay single. :lol:Fin-Omenal and DonShula84 like this. -
Quick Update.....We are through.....And this is how I feel...
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best of luck bro.
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Haha. I hope you at least escaped with your head, and/or balls.
Seriously though, good luck, man.
IMO, just make sure you do whatever you can to help your daughter. You def sound like that's your #1 priority so I'm sure you'll be fine.Fin-Omenal likes this. -
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Appreciate the support fella's really.
She wants to live here and I dont think thats a good idea but what am I going to do? Cant kick her out with no where to go..
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You got enough to pay for a hotel?
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Yea but for how long? This truely sucks man!
Im stuck....she is VERY imature and is needling me about seeing my kid only on the wekends, thats crossing the line and honestly Im trying to keep my composure for my kid's sake. -
I can't really say a whole lot, I've never been thru what your going thru. I can only wish you well and there are a lot of people on here that can help you out.
Bottem line is that we're all family on here.Fin-Omenal likes this. -