Premature ejaculation

lol i usually just whack the carrot a few times before wifey gets home......i think that has been working for me :huh:

"SickFinFan33 wrote:

lol i usually just whack the carrot a few times before wifey gets home......i think that has been working for me :huh:

I think that can be counterproductive in excess.

I'd think that going down the Dolphins depth chart gets one even more pumped up.

At least that's what I've heard.

"Muck wrote:

I'd think that going down the Dolphins depth chart gets one even more pumped up.

At least that's what I've heard.

Guess it depends on what floats your boat

Back OT:
In my opinion, abstinence will indeed add to the lack of control

If you really want to improve your "Staying Power" , I suggest reading up on male Kagels (sp). There is a muscle near the nether regions you can build, and yes it definitely helps. :up:

I've been in this situation many times. When you're with a new girl, or haven't been getting it on a consistent basis the performance anxiety can creep in and cause you to finish alot quicker than you normally would.

My suggestion would be for you to be on top. This way you can control the motion and ease up if you feel yourself stray towards the point of no return.

I've found that going slower, in addition to helping you last longer, seems to turn the girl on even more. When you feel like you need to slow down, kiss her neck, chest, ear or whatever sweet spot she prefers the most.

Hope this helps.

i'll second keigel exercises and what hardkore said. sex doesn't have to be vaginal penetration the whole time. just stop for a few minutes and rest it up meanwhile kissing, holding etc. then when you feel you're ready to hop back in the saddle again you're good to go.

also, masturbate before you have sex as sick said as well (maybe like a half hour before hand if you know when it's going to happen) that way it's already out of your system once and it will take longer to get you there again.

also also when you masturbate by yourself try getting yourself as close to getting off as possible then stop going at it (note if you gotta blow you gotta blow don't stop that it's not healthy) but ya know.. stop goin at it before you do.. and then let yourself calm down. you'll notice it more and more that when you have sex you'll be able to tell when that "point of no return is" before you get there.

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good advice thus far. just beat off more, it'll slow you down for sure.

pretty much what everyone said here:

1. rub one out beforehand
2. practice on your own to obtain more control
3. go slower in the sack, taking breaks
4. those keigel exercises ive heard as well, they work though I havent done them myself.
5. ill add one: marijuana not only enhances sex, it also helps me last longer. though this method is controversial and may not be for you. but it works for me.

i honestly heard taking your time and enjoying masturbation.....rather than rushing....helps also.

that old lady on "oxygen" at like midnight said it.....so its gotta be true

"SickFinFan33 wrote:

i honestly heard taking your time and enjoying masturbation.....rather than rushing....helps also.

that old lady on "oxygen" at like midnight said it.....so its gotta be true

*instant flaccidity*

just spend more time downtown on her till shes finishes then jump on for your minute ride. So atleast you both finish :)

"FinSane wrote:

pretty much what everyone said here:

1. rub one out beforehand
2. practice on your own to obtain more control
3. go slower in the sack, taking breaks
4. those keigel exercises ive heard as well, they work though I havent done them myself.
5. ill add one: marijuana not only enhances sex, it also helps me last longer. though this method is controversial and may not be for you. but it works for me.

I can go for hours with Beer-Dick. Although as you said, it's not for everyone.

3 words... Horny Goat Weed.

I'm not a sex therapist but I have finished my 2nd year of med school.

A lot depends on your age. If you're 15 - 21 your levels of testosterone are going to make lasting longer during sex very difficult. The best advice I could give you is to go ahead and embrace your abilities to ejaculate quickly instead of viewing it as some negative. If you ejaculate quickly during sex, make the conscious decision that your sex won't end with your ejaculation. Perform lots of four-play before penetration to enhance your partners experience and then after you ejaculate remove the condom and continue stimulating your partner while they are still at the height of arousal. Continue to stimulate your partner until your erection returns and over time you'll notice that you can continue having sex after ejaculation. Put on another condom (PLEASE USE CONDOMS DURING SEX) and then penetrate your partner again. Should solve your problem.

You could read about Tantric Sex (http://is.gd/rh4j) if you're interested in sex and spirituality and lasting longer. Its a great experience; I had a Tantric partner during undergrad and it was a fantastic experience.

"Lab3003 wrote:

I'm not a sex therapist but I have finished my 2nd year of med school.

A lot depends on your age. If you're 15 - 21 your levels of testosterone are going to make lasting longer during sex very difficult. The best advice I could give you is to go ahead and embrace your abilities to ejaculate quickly instead of viewing it as some negative. If you ejaculate quickly during sex, make the conscious decision that your sex won't end with your ejaculation. Perform lots of four-play before penetration to enhance your partners experience and then after you ejaculate remove the condom and continue stimulating your partner while they are still at the height of arousal. Continue to stimulate your partner until your erection returns and over time you'll notice that you can continue having sex after ejaculation. Put on another condom (PLEASE USE CONDOMS DURING SEX) and then penetrate your partner again. Should solve your problem.

You could read about Tantric Sex (http://is.gd/rh4j) if you're interested in sex and spirituality and lasting longer. Its a great experience; I had a Tantric partner during undergrad and it was a fantastic experience.

mmmmmmm tantric sex.

"Aqua4Ever04 wrote:

I'm that way with a condom on. I've never put a condom on at the start of sex and finished with the thing on. The only way that works for me is to take it off at some point, get some work in, then when I feel it coming, put the condom back on and finish up.

You do this too long you'll have knee high kid tugging at your jacket asking you to buy a snow cone in a few years.

if i ever have this problem....i just strap up again in 5 minutes....but iam 22....i can do that :lol:

just do what I do, date ugly women.

"HardKoreXXX wrote:

I've been in this situation many times. When you're with a new girl, or haven't been getting it on a consistent basis the performance anxiety can creep in and cause you to finish alot quicker than you normally would.

My suggestion would be for you to be on top. This way you can control the motion and ease up if you feel yourself stray towards the point of no return.

I've found that going slower, in addition to helping you last longer, seems to turn the girl on even more. When you feel like you need to slow down, kiss her neck, chest, ear or whatever sweet spot she prefers the most.

Hope this helps.

that wont work for guys like sick and enforcer, hookers hate when you do that ****.

For a minute I thought I was in my PM box and wasnt sure if those annoying emailers had found me again! :lol:

On the serious side, the advice others have given is solid. I would add to it that slowing down is the best one I have seen. Go slow, many women I have been with prefer it. As guys, many of us have the tendency to just want to ground and pound because we're males and we just like to get stuff over with.

I agree that avoiding ejaculation shouldnt be a chore and going over the Phins roster during sex would be pretty bad. What I have learned this can mean in certain relationships is that sex has become a chore because the relationship doesnt have the same spark. Maybe trying some different things as far as foreplay and positions might make it more fun and maybe she'll want to do it more often.

People also forget to breath during sex the same way they do during weight training and other intense physical activities. Intake of oxygen is as important as anything. I noticed my performance in the gym changed when I learned to breath when lifting. The same thing happened for me in the bedroom.

You could always take a cialis.

but all the blood leaves my brain when I'm having sex.

Thats generally how the process works.

"Frumundah Finnatic wrote:

You could always take a cialis.

Or a topical numbing agent like Maxoderm. And no I dont have any recommendations or experience with it, just seen tons of commercials :up:

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/30107742/

"texanphinatic wrote:

Or a topical numbing agent like Maxoderm. And no I dont have any recommendations or experience with it, just seen tons of commercials :up:

Riiiiiiight. :wink2: